Yesterday my uncle spanked the hell out of my cousin because he put on nail polish.?

Yesterday my family and I went over to my grandma's house just too see how she was doing and my 6 year old cousin went to the bathroom as soon as we entered the house. He was in there for over 15 minutes so my uncle went to check on him. When he went in my cousin had on one of my grandma's wigs and had nail polish all over his hands and lipstick all ovr his face. My uncle immediatly took off his belt and hit on his knees, arms, and hands. He must of hit him about 20 times with that thing making remarks like '; nail polish is for girls, you're a boy ';. This is not the first time my cousin has done this. How would you have handled the situation?Yesterday my uncle spanked the hell out of my cousin because he put on nail polish.?
Well, that kid wont put on nail polish again will he?Yesterday my uncle spanked the hell out of my cousin because he put on nail polish.?
i put on nail puiishish on my nails hey i was 4 and curisouly and my dad took me into the bathroom put me on the coutner wash it of then siad dont do it again please i siad yes daddy then he gave me a kiss and sad thankyou then pick me up then took me downstairs and i never did Report Abuse

Your uncle may not realize that the abuse he is inflicting on this child can actually cause the exact thing he is trying to prevent. Being abused and having to seek love elsewhere forces him to seek love from other men since his father didn't effectively give it to him.
Ooooh that isn't good. He should've just sat down and talked to him telling him that the next time he does it that he will have to spank him.
Report the uncle to Child Protetctive Services because this poor little boy is being terribly physically abused. He hit him with a belt in the knees, arms, and hands? Hello? This is crazy. The boy is only SIX. Don't wait.





You don't want a poor little 6-year old boy to get killed or suffer lasting harm because of this tyrant.
I would have spanked the uncle, while wearing your grandma's wig, lipstick, and nail polish.
I probably would have laughed, and called it cute then sat him down and told him. ';It was cute the first time, but you shouldn't do it again. That's grandma's stuff, not yours.';





And he probably did it so he could get attention. Y'know? He probably wants somebody to laugh at something he did, because he wants to be funny. Kids love it when they make adults laugh!
thats really mean, he shouldnt have hit him because of that, i would have sat him down and ask questions about why he did that, then tell him it was not for guys to be doing that and only girls. I think when that boy grows up hes going to be gay or transexual.
Well, I wouldn't have ';beaten'; him, though I would have been a little peeved after a good laugh, seeing him in all that makeup and stuff. I would have also explained to him that not only is makeup and nail polish is for girls but this stuff is not for him to get into. It is not his to play with. He should not be meddling in other people's belongings. I'd also want to know if this child has been beaten like this before and if so, I'd report your uncle to the police.
Shame on you for not reporting him, that is abuse whether it is 1 time or 20 times, that was NOT a spanking. A spanking is different from being hit 20 times all over with a belt. You as an older teen or an adult are failing this child by allowing something like this to have happened in your presence. You need to right now report this! You can do so where no one will know it is you. I cannot believe you defended this man for his behavior!! Right now you are contributing to the abuse of a 6 year old child by sitting by and doing nothing. If something happens to him in the future you can hold yourself partially responsible, and I promise you you will.





Reporting him does not mean the child will be taken from him, your uncle will be shown how to properly discipline and take care of a child. Your uncle will have to take parenting classes and talk with a social worker. They would not remove the child unless this had happened before or happens again.
I believe hitting a six year old with a belt 20 times on the knees, arms and hands is abuse The 6 year old is being a kid, and although he may need some discipline so he knows this is not acceptable at grandmas house, he is blameless when it comes to getting beaten. I actually feel sick in my stomach for this kid, if he is getting hit like that in front of people, what is happening to him at home when no one else is there. Your uncle sounds like a brute who uses over the top force with his child. If you are able to talk to someone trusted about this. Your cousin could be seriously hurt and I believe he needs protection.


I have 2 kids and would never hit them with a belt for any reason. Even one swat on the butt is better than out right beating the poor boy! He is only 6 for goodness sakes! It also sounds like the child is trying to get attention from Daddy and the only attention he gets is negative in the form of beating! This is totally ineffective parenting, outdated, harsh, and illegal by the way! If I had a way of knowing who this is, I would be legally oblliged to report him! If no one in your family has or is willing to report this, they are all hiding the fact that a little boy is being abused.


As far as how I would have handled it,(I am an adult) I would have stepped in, jumped on Uncles back if I had to. Shame on all the other adults for doing nothing.


I am almost in tears thinking about this scene.


Please do something, he is a little boy in need of help.
no no no! do not call child services! i'm a child,i kno.foster care is not the answer.the child is not being phycically abused,but he is being wrongly punished,he should have gotten a very long timeout,and he should have been talked to.maybe a couple of smacks on the bottom,with the hand to get his attention.spanking,with a belt,should always be a last resort,after all other things were tried out.


that's how i would of handled it.if you're uncomfortable,with how he was punished just talk to your uncle, and tell him,that the way of going about punishing his child,is just a little harsh.


if all esle fails, and he doesn't listen,threaten to call child services,but don't.


whatever you do,remember,parents are very sensitive,when it comes to people critisizing their parenting skills,so go politely about doing so.


my mom had a friend,who i felt was abusing her kid,i told her,and i was the one who got beat for it,so,my advice,is to go about taliking to him in a calm way,if you are going to talk to him.








i kno it may sound crazy an alot of people are telling you to call child services,but that would be punishing the child.


think about it,the uncle stays at home,while the investigation is being taken place,an your poor six year old cousin,will be in a foster home,not sure if he will go home.


and unless,somebody knows a person,or relative,who cps will accept to take him in,until the court case,that he has to stay in whatever foster home they put him in.


trust me,i know how that feels,and i'm older than he.but either way,that was the most scariest thing of my life,i wouldn't want him to go through that too.


i kno it could help in the long run,but in a about two to three more years,he may be able to handle this on his own.


i just don't want him or his family to have endure the pain,me and my family had to endure.
not like that 20 times on legs knees and hands that is abuse and you better talk to your uncle and tell him to lay off or you will have to report him
Your uncle abused your cousin, and should be reported. Whipping a child with a belt like that is horrible and unacceptable. Your uncle sounds like a homophobic ***. If your cousin did grow up to be gay...I would imagine your uncle would kill him...he for sure would never accept him. How sad that it seems your family thinks it's okay to brutally abuse a little boy, no matter what the reason. You ask how would we have handled the situation? I probably would have laughed and helped clean him up. Your Uncle is abusing his son, out of own stupid fears.
I would have sat down and talked to the kid about why he shouldn't do it. Then I'd take off my belt and beat the sh*t out of the Uncle.





You need to call CPS on him...that's not good and it's only going to get worse.
wow ur couzin is a boy?i though he waz a gurl! anyays its nothing serious he wuz just playing around thats all. besides in some countries its part of the tradition to beat the child if they do something wrong. its part of my culture cuz im nigerian.